Looks matter. They matter a lot. This is an unfortunate fact of life. Good looking people get treated better than less good-looking people. In dating, looks are the most important factor in initially attracting the opposite sex. It hurts even typing this. I wish this was not the true but the sooner you can reconcile this fact the happier you will be.
Men treat very attractive girls better than less attractive girls. They put up with a lot more misbehavior. They are more likely to commit their time and resources to them. Women are more likely to go on first dates with good-looking men vs less good-looking men. If you do not believe me, observe the dating lives of your very attractive friends. Their dating issues are radically different from the dating issues of less attractive people. This is just the way it is in Western nations. In less economically developed parts of the world, survival is a predominant factor in dating. “Superficial” aspects of dating become secondary. The more wealthy a nation, the more superficial the population (there are exceptions).
The good news is that almost anyone can become good-looking. Optimize your body. Get in great shape. Having a physically fit body will make you attractive. We may not be able to control the shape of our face, but we can definitely control the shape of our body. It just takes discipline. Let’s develop the discipline to become physical fit. This will not only improve your dating life, it will also improve your quality of life. A healthy body supplements a healthy mind. You can do it. I will help you acheive your goal!